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Intro to Cloth Diapers: Cloth Training Pants

Intro to Cloth Diapers: Cloth Training Pants

Even the Non Cloth Diapering Family can get down with Cloth Training Pants, especially when they realize those Pull Ups they are only using twice a day are still costing a fortune!

This installment in the Introduction to Cloth Diapers Series is going to show you the many types of Reusable Cloth Trainers available, but there are many not in the film too!

Cloth Trainers also can be called “Reusable Trainers,” “Cloth Training Pants,” or just “Trainers.”

Cloth Trainers are an easy to pull up (and down) pant with enough absorbency to hold at least one accident or more.  Can be waterproof or not.  Many have side snaps for e removal in case of solid accidents.

Just like regular cloth diapers, the types of Cloth Trainers on the market are plentiful.  It is an entire subset where more categories exist and branch out.  Let’s break it down.

Pull on Only- These trainers are strictly pull ups with no other closures.  They have a stretchy waistband.  Can be Waterproof or Non Waterproof. Ex. Imse Vimse

Side Snapping Pull on- These trainers pull up and down thanks to a stretchy waistband but they also have the option of unsnapping on the sides.  This is especially helpful if your child has a number 2 accident and makes clean-up easier.  Can be Waterproof or Non Waterproof.  Ex. BumbleDoo

Pocket Style Trainer- {Not seen in the video} These trainers have a pocket (just like Pocket cloth diapers) that can be stuffed with an absorbent insert.  This gives you control over the absorbency levels you need.  Pocket Trainers are especially good for nights when you might need extra protection.  Pocket Trainers can be Waterproof or Non Waterproof.  They are usually Side Snapping Trainers as well.  Ex. Happy Heiny’s Pocket Trainers

Overnight Trainers- {Not seen in the video} Overnight trainers have a lot of absorbency included and are Waterproof to keep the bed sheets (hopefully) dry.  Most trainers by definition are not that absorbent since they are assuming the child is in some stage of potty learning.  They are meant to hold one miss or a trinkle, not an entire full bladder’s pee.  For parents wanting to give toddlers their dignity in the last phase of potty training or older children who cannot yet stay dry at night these are a good option.  Ex.  Super Undies Overnights
Bedwetting Pants- {Not seen in the video} Bedwetting Pants are designed for older toddlers, children who still wet the bed at night, and sometimes older children with Special Needs.  They are VERY absorbent and are meant to contain a large amount of urine.  Another item to pair with these would be a PUL backed mat for extra protection of the sheets (saves changing for every accident).  Ex. Motherease Bedwetting Pants
EC Pants- {Not seen in the video} Elimination Communication is a practice of introducing a baby to the potty at an early age (even from birth).  Typical Training Pants don’t fit infants and small babies so there are some “trainers” that are easy on and off, even those with panels that pull down while the waist stays closed, that are smaller.  These usually have EC in mind in some way so they have easy access but still have some absorbency for any accidents.  They can be Waterproof or Non Waterproof.  Ex. ECA Ware

Other options:

Most parents who are considering a Training Pant are looking for something specific.  These are options available within most of the above TYPES of Trainers.
Stay Dry Lining- A Stay Dry Liner, such as Suedecloth or Microfleece, will wick mosture from the child’s skin and to the absorbent insert, leaving their skin feeling dry.  This is more confortable for the child and a great option for Overnight Trainers.
Non Stay Dry Lining- Any natural material such as Bamboo, Cotton, or Hemp will feel wet after urinating.  Feeling wet is a good thing for potty training since it alerts the child to their accident.  If they are uncomfortable with being wet, or notice, this will aid in potty training.  Ex. Kissaluvs Trainers with Flannel Lining
Full Waterproof- Trainers that are completely waterproof function much like a diaper.  The drawback is that you, the parent, are unaware that your child has had an accident in many cases.  Full Waterproof trainers with a High Absorbency level are great for nights and naps or outings.   Ex. Happy Heiny’s Pocket Trainer

Hidden Waterproof Layer- Many of the trimmer and “most like underwear” Trainers have a hidden layer of PUL sewn between the outside and inside layers.  This means they are a soft material (usually cotton) to the touch on the outside and look/feel like real underwear.  The downside is that they do not hold up to larger misses like during naps and overnight.  They are still great for the mostly potty trained child who trickles a bit and work great for going out and saving a pair of pants.  Ex.  Blueberry Trainers
Non Waterproof- You might be thinking, what is the point of a Non Waterproof Trainer?  Well, if you want to know when a child has an accident right away, or you’d like to understand their patterns before beginning Potty Training, a non waterproof trainer will be easy to tell by sight or touch.  This a great tool for parents practicing “Elimination Communication.” Ex. Little Beetle Learners

And remember, Side Snapping Pockets work great for trainers too, like the Evolution Ion or Knickernappies!

Like cloth diapers, Cloth Trainers should not be washed using detergents with softeners or other harmful materials.  They can be washed with regular clothes if they have only been peed in and if you aren’t doing regular diaper laundry.

Keep following the Intro to Cloth Diaper Series as I continue to add to the library of videos and posts.

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No More Cloth Diapers for Fletcher!

No More Cloth Diapers for Fletcher!

At 2 years, 3 months, and 1 day old Fletcher learned to use the potty!  It took 9 days from start to finish.  And now I don’t know what to think!

Last Monday he started stripping his clothes and diaper, so I just never put them back on.  I had already been thinking of beginning the “3 Day Potty Training” method that I had looked into, but just didn’t have the motivation.  Let’s face it, a toddler in a diaper is easier to manage than one who is nude and potentially pooping on your floor.

My main motivation to teach him to use the potty was having to wash diapers less frequently, not gonna lie.  I have been buried in laundry for months.  Every other day I have to wash their clothes, and diapers.  Plus our clothing, bedding, towels, and unpaper towels.  I couldn’t get my head above water for one day!

So when he took his clothes off, they stayed off for 9 days.  No diaper, no underwear (for the most part) and rarely a shirt.  I turned the fireplace on in the mornings to make sure the house wasn’t too cold.

I explained that he was going to learn to use the potty like a big boy, and there were no more diapers.  I prepared a sticker chart and promised a chocolate (usually a pretzel M&M) for each number 1 or number 2.  Each time he pottied I did a ridiculous dance and song “Fletcher pee peed on the potty” to the tune of “La Cucaracha”  and we made a huge deal of things.

Fletcher practicing being diaper free, 6 months You may be able to see the pee in the potty.

This was different than ECing, something we have done part time at our leisure since he was 6 months old.  I did congratulate him for using the potty but not in such a grandious way, and there were no rewards.  My main goal for ECing him was to make sure he never feared the potty, and when we were ready, he would know what to do.  If it saved a few diapers and kept him comfortable in the process that was just a bonus.

Even though I was ready for him to learn the potty, I wasn’t sure if he was.  He has used it a million times but only when I put him on.  He has only cued me by saying “poop” or “potty” twice before.  Frankly, my son is a man of few words.  He would rather sign certain things, and he only uses brief commands, never sentences.

Using an all naked training method proved to be the most effective for us.  I do have all hardwood flooring though, so this made life easier.  In the beginning he would just start peeing wherever he was.  I started carrying a little potty around and catching it when he did, then making a big deal out of him peeing “on” the potty.  When he just peed on the floor I didn’t admonish him, but I did tell him that wasn’t what he was supposed to do, and I would send him to play in his room while I cleaned the mess.  I used my EC knowledge to put him on the potty when I knew he would need to potty (after naps, after waking in the morning, 10-30 minutes after a big drink, or when I heard flatulence signaling he needed to evacuate his bowels) and this helped tremendously.

Once we got a “catch” it was party time!  He thoroughly enjoyed the stickers, which he liked to pick out himself and affix.  The chocolate was a hit too, of course.

We had good days and bad over the 9 days.  Sometimes it felt like he only peed on the potty once, and the rest was getting caught mid stream or wiped off of the floor.   It was mentally draining for me as well.  Not to sound gross, but staring at my son’s penis in anticipation of a pee, and constantly listening for him to pass gas was not my idea of fun.  Housework, blog work, all were on hold while I catered to his needs.  My poor baby was woken more than once while sleeping in my arms or nursing as I JUMPED to catch a pee or run the boy to the potty.

We really started making more progress when my husband would potty in front if him and when we started having him stand up to pee.  (I purchased a Flippee from Amazon to install on our toilet to make this less messy) I also started the “let’s pee on a cheerio” game which worked to get him excited to pee, rather than want to avoid it.  He liked the sound of peeing in water and liked to see the bubbles being made.  Peeing standing is so much more fun than sitting, plus he can really see what is going on!

On Day 8 we had 3 floor accidents, but we also finally started to have un prompted potty visits.  He just started going!  He didn’t tell me, but I would follow him and he would stand and pee or put the seat on the toilet himself, and go.

On Day 9 he went unprompted every visit except one.  We even went out in trainers and he returned dry, and he went potty a few minutes after we got home, unprompted as well.  Apparently he did have one accident when Daddy got home but I am still calling him potty trained!

Now that the day he is 98% done with diapers (we are still unsure of his ability to go while out in public since he doesn’t ask to go, he just goes at home.  Not possible at Target) and wakes up dry most days from naps and night time, I am is disbelief.  On one hand I an thrilled, utterly thrilled, that it worked.  I am actually very proud of myself for sticking to my plan despite the hardship of it.  I wanted to give up many times.  It would have been easier to just put him back in a diaper and get my life back.  Instead we locked ourselves inside and did it.

I am also tremendously proud of Fletcher.  Once it clicked, it stayed.  And he has been going potty ever since.

27 months is a little early for boys to potty train, though I certainly know of boys who have done so sooner.  I am still very happy to be done with the diaper phase for Fletcher.  I am only sad that he is growing up so fast.  He eats with real utensils, on real plates, drinks from real cups, and uses the potty.  He is a little person!

At least he still needs his mommy for lots of hugs and kisses and cuddles…for now!

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Cloth Training Pants Round-Up

This is a small selection of cloth training pants available.  Many reflect well known brands and some are handmade.  There are even more options online including night and day time trainers, and overnight pants for bedwetting with extra protection.

Little Beetles Little Learners (Non Waterproof, Velour, wet zone protection, side snaps) 18.95

littlebeetle
Kelly’s Closet

Happy Heiney’s Pocket Trainers (Waterproof, stuffable pocket, side snap, pull on) 15.95
Kelly’s Closet

Bummis Pull on Trainers (Waterproof, terry padding, flannel liner, pull on) 11.00-12.00
Kelly’s Closet

Ladder Hill Designer Trainers (Custom or ready to buy, waterproof, side snap, zorb and bamboo soaker) 15.95

ladderhill
Ladder Hill Hyena Cart

Imse Vimse Trainer (Organic cotton, Waterproof, cotton terry liner) 15.35
Amazon.com

BlueBerry Trainers (Non Waterproof, pull on, microterry soaker, bamboo lining) 15.95
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Snap EZ AIO Trainer (Waterproof, side snaps, stay dry or non stay dry liner option) 17.95
Jillians’s Drawers

Eca Pants flip down trainers. (waterproof and non waterproof versions) 17.95

ecwear
EC Wear

Under The Nile (Non Waterproof, organic cotton) 10.00
Jillian’s Drawers

Why Mommy Hipster. (Waterproof or Non Waterproof, side snap) 15.50
EC Wear

Antsy Pants Toddler Pull Ups. (Waterproof, stuffable, side snapping) 25.00-27.00

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Starbunz Super Undies (waterproof, pocket for adding additional stuffing, back release) 19.95-21.95

starbunz
MyBabyPumpkin.com

Batik Bum- Bum Unders (Waterproof, Zorb in Wetzone, bamboo liner) 14.00
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Small Skivies (underwear, but too cute not to share for when training is complete) 12.00

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Small Threads.  Etsy

Did I miss your favorite?  Let me know and I might add it to the list!

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The Road to Potty Learning and Benefits of ECing

The Road to Potty Learning and Benefits of ECing

babylegsI am getting serious about potty learning now.  I started ECing (elimination communication- practicing infant “potty training” by reading a baby’s cues and catching eliminations) my son when he was 6 months old on a part time basis.  In the beginning we were excited about it and sometimes went a whole day with no wet diapers.  But I got busier in life and my son got busier and would rather play than sit on the potty and hang out with me.  We still did it, sometimes 1-3 times a day, and sometimes we would go days or weeks between using a potty.  To me, EC wasn’t an all or nothing thing.  The reason I wanted to EC was to save myself a few diapers of washing and to introduce my son to the potty at a young age to avoid that fear some children have.

At 18 months old my son is definitely not afraid to use the potty.  He has still not shown any signs before he needs to go.  He doesn’t tell me or sign, or go to the potty beforehand.  I am still reading his cues and going by patterns.

He pees after he wakes for the day and after naps.  He pees before his bath.  He poops after breakfast and dinner (usually).  I put him on the potty those times when I can.  I can tell he needs to poop when he passes gas.  If I wait for the “poop face” or grunting it is too late…. the deed is halfway or totally done.

My son practicing being diaper free.  You may be able to see the pee in the potty.

My son practicing being diaper free. You may be able to see the pee in the potty.

Some people might think I am trying too early.  I see it as making him more aware of his bodily functions.  Unfortunately (or fortunately depending on your point of view) my son cares nothing about being wet or sitting in poop.  He would wear the same diaper all day with no complaints.  This makes it harder.  If he was bothered by those things I would assume he would be more interested in using the potty.

To me it is worth the extra effort.  The age for potty training is getting older and older.  I want my son to be on the younger end.  This means less laundry for me.  My son benefits by not having to wear diapers anymore.  He could also play in the Ikea playroom!

Even as I write this I wonder if I am crazy.  Running my son to the potty every time he passes gas…. but it is working for our family.  Even if it takes months of this before he begins telling me he needs to potty, I will still do it.  Plus, not having to spray a poopy diaper is a benefit I can live with.

Tomorrow I will be posting a list of cloth trainers, similar to my swim diaper post, so stay tuned!

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Antsy Pants Cloth Diaper Review

Ease of Use ✰✰✰✰ The Antsy Pants pull on cloth diaper is so super simple to put on and off of your toddler.  Since my son can be particularly “antsy” some days these have been awesome to use.  I can pull them on him while he is standing or laying down.  He never did make a solid mess in them, but if he had I could have also unsnapped it to avoid having the mess be slid down his legs.  The only reason I wouldn’t give it a 5 is that to put the insert in (which we didn’t use much) you need to put in in the slot on the inside of the diaper.  You have to fold it in a way that fits and then put it in.  If you dno’t use the insert and have these more as a trainer then it is definitely a 5 star.

Bang for the Buck ✰✰✰✰ The Antsy Pants are a unique item.  They work just like pull ups but have the benefit of being reusable and way cute.  The diaper runs 25.oo unless you buy them in packs, so you can get them as low as 21.00.  I think if you are trying to potty learn or EC your toddler these are worth the price for the convenience.  I would like a non waterproof version also so I could tell if we did miss a tinkle.  But, I still love these for when we are going for potty only!

Performance ✰✰✰✰ These are perfect for what I think of them for, training They pull up and down easy, they hold a miss without an insert and more than that with the insert.  I personally wouldn’t use this as a diaper when I think he is going to be in it for a while.  I prefer it when we are using the potty.  They will still work for that just fine with the insert.

Fit ✰✰✰✰ These fit so cute on my son.  I have a red and yellow pair and they look like superman undies.  They have a bikini style and cover less of his butt than a diaper.  Might not be good if he did have a solid mess in them… and worse for a less than solid mess.  I referenced the size chart to choose his size and they fit well.

Overall- I am really happy with this diaper.  It has made potty learning easier when we know we are working on it.  You can pull some traditional cloth diapers up and down but it isn’t near as easy as this.  Plus they look so cute on him I just love it!  I wouldn’t buy a ton but I would definitely buy a few more to ease potty time on mommy and toddler.


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