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Cloth Training Pants Round-Up

This is a small selection of cloth training pants available.  Many reflect well known brands and some are handmade.  There are even more options online including night and day time trainers, and overnight pants for bedwetting with extra protection.

Little Beetles Little Learners (Non Waterproof, Velour, wet zone protection, side snaps) 18.95

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Kelly’s Closet

Happy Heiney’s Pocket Trainers (Waterproof, stuffable pocket, side snap, pull on) 15.95
Kelly’s Closet

Bummis Pull on Trainers (Waterproof, terry padding, flannel liner, pull on) 11.00-12.00
Kelly’s Closet

Ladder Hill Designer Trainers (Custom or ready to buy, waterproof, side snap, zorb and bamboo soaker) 15.95

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Imse Vimse Trainer (Organic cotton, Waterproof, cotton terry liner) 15.35
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BlueBerry Trainers (Non Waterproof, pull on, microterry soaker, bamboo lining) 15.95
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Snap EZ AIO Trainer (Waterproof, side snaps, stay dry or non stay dry liner option) 17.95
Jillians’s Drawers

Eca Pants flip down trainers. (waterproof and non waterproof versions) 17.95

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Under The Nile (Non Waterproof, organic cotton) 10.00
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Why Mommy Hipster. (Waterproof or Non Waterproof, side snap) 15.50
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Antsy Pants Toddler Pull Ups. (Waterproof, stuffable, side snapping) 25.00-27.00

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Starbunz Super Undies (waterproof, pocket for adding additional stuffing, back release) 19.95-21.95

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Batik Bum- Bum Unders (Waterproof, Zorb in Wetzone, bamboo liner) 14.00
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Small Skivies (underwear, but too cute not to share for when training is complete) 12.00

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Did I miss your favorite?  Let me know and I might add it to the list!

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The Road to Potty Learning and Benefits of ECing

The Road to Potty Learning and Benefits of ECing

babylegsI am getting serious about potty learning now.  I started ECing (elimination communication- practicing infant “potty training” by reading a baby’s cues and catching eliminations) my son when he was 6 months old on a part time basis.  In the beginning we were excited about it and sometimes went a whole day with no wet diapers.  But I got busier in life and my son got busier and would rather play than sit on the potty and hang out with me.  We still did it, sometimes 1-3 times a day, and sometimes we would go days or weeks between using a potty.  To me, EC wasn’t an all or nothing thing.  The reason I wanted to EC was to save myself a few diapers of washing and to introduce my son to the potty at a young age to avoid that fear some children have.

At 18 months old my son is definitely not afraid to use the potty.  He has still not shown any signs before he needs to go.  He doesn’t tell me or sign, or go to the potty beforehand.  I am still reading his cues and going by patterns.

He pees after he wakes for the day and after naps.  He pees before his bath.  He poops after breakfast and dinner (usually).  I put him on the potty those times when I can.  I can tell he needs to poop when he passes gas.  If I wait for the “poop face” or grunting it is too late…. the deed is halfway or totally done.

My son practicing being diaper free.  You may be able to see the pee in the potty.

My son practicing being diaper free. You may be able to see the pee in the potty.

Some people might think I am trying too early.  I see it as making him more aware of his bodily functions.  Unfortunately (or fortunately depending on your point of view) my son cares nothing about being wet or sitting in poop.  He would wear the same diaper all day with no complaints.  This makes it harder.  If he was bothered by those things I would assume he would be more interested in using the potty.

To me it is worth the extra effort.  The age for potty training is getting older and older.  I want my son to be on the younger end.  This means less laundry for me.  My son benefits by not having to wear diapers anymore.  He could also play in the Ikea playroom!

Even as I write this I wonder if I am crazy.  Running my son to the potty every time he passes gas…. but it is working for our family.  Even if it takes months of this before he begins telling me he needs to potty, I will still do it.  Plus, not having to spray a poopy diaper is a benefit I can live with.

Tomorrow I will be posting a list of cloth trainers, similar to my swim diaper post, so stay tuned!

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Antsy Pants Cloth Diaper Review

Ease of Use ✰✰✰✰ The Antsy Pants pull on cloth diaper is so super simple to put on and off of your toddler.  Since my son can be particularly “antsy” some days these have been awesome to use.  I can pull them on him while he is standing or laying down.  He never did make a solid mess in them, but if he had I could have also unsnapped it to avoid having the mess be slid down his legs.  The only reason I wouldn’t give it a 5 is that to put the insert in (which we didn’t use much) you need to put in in the slot on the inside of the diaper.  You have to fold it in a way that fits and then put it in.  If you dno’t use the insert and have these more as a trainer then it is definitely a 5 star.

Bang for the Buck ✰✰✰✰ The Antsy Pants are a unique item.  They work just like pull ups but have the benefit of being reusable and way cute.  The diaper runs 25.oo unless you buy them in packs, so you can get them as low as 21.00.  I think if you are trying to potty learn or EC your toddler these are worth the price for the convenience.  I would like a non waterproof version also so I could tell if we did miss a tinkle.  But, I still love these for when we are going for potty only!

Performance ✰✰✰✰ These are perfect for what I think of them for, training They pull up and down easy, they hold a miss without an insert and more than that with the insert.  I personally wouldn’t use this as a diaper when I think he is going to be in it for a while.  I prefer it when we are using the potty.  They will still work for that just fine with the insert.

Fit ✰✰✰✰ These fit so cute on my son.  I have a red and yellow pair and they look like superman undies.  They have a bikini style and cover less of his butt than a diaper.  Might not be good if he did have a solid mess in them… and worse for a less than solid mess.  I referenced the size chart to choose his size and they fit well.

Overall- I am really happy with this diaper.  It has made potty learning easier when we know we are working on it.  You can pull some traditional cloth diapers up and down but it isn’t near as easy as this.  Plus they look so cute on him I just love it!  I wouldn’t buy a ton but I would definitely buy a few more to ease potty time on mommy and toddler.


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Pampers is now on the Offensive

Believe it or not, cloth diapers are worrying Pampers.  With the recent press on the Dry Max diapers allegedly causing “burn like” rashes or contact dermatitis, their PR people are frantically trying to repair the damage.

One such way they are countering the bad press caused by the Facebook group “Bring back the Old Pampers Cruisers” which is up to 8,300 members and counting, is to publish how cloth diapers are no good!

Obviously my website publishes how disposables, and at times Pampers, are not good for our babies or planet.  I may be biased, but I do that because it is truth to me.  Pampers is trying to save their business, so lets hear them out.  All information was taken from Pamper’s website.

Because it is what I do, I am going to examine their newest attack on cloth diapers to see what is true, false, or in between.

Myth: Cloth diapers are better for my baby.

Fact: Disposable diapers like Pampers were developed to offer babies benefits that cloth diapers could not meet. That goes beyond convenience to helping keep babies’ skin dryer and more comfortable by reducing leaks and locking wetness inside the diaper in a way that cloth doesn’t. As a result, doctors and parents simply don’t see the same level of diaper rash that used to exist before disposable diapers.

Their main argument that disposables are better for babies is that cloth diapers leak and don’t keep babies dry. They are preying on the fact that most parents still don’t know there are modern cloth diapers. Nothing is wrong with using the old style, but for those who want a stay dry liner and the convenience of an easy on/ easy off diaper, cloth diapers offer that as well. And their claim that more rashes existed before disposables is very false. I am working on finding the study (if you have seen it please tell me!) that claims the exact opposite.  As a matter of fact, my son had more leaks with disposables at night than with cloth diapers (during a period when we were working on getting the ammonia out of our diapers he used them for a little while.)  No leaks with cloth, at least 3 nights of waking up soaked with a disposable.  Funny….

Also, these super dry diapers are one of the reasons children are learning to use the potty, later and later.  When at one time babies were learning by 1.5 to 2 years, the average child learns between 3-4 years!  The ultra dry diapers are only one of many reasons for this (a culture shift) but using cloth diapers does contribute to babies potty learning earlier!  I sure hope so at least!

Myth: Cloth diapers are better for the environment than disposables.

Fact: In October 2008, the United Kingdom’s Environment Agency published an update to its 2005 Life Cycle Assessment study on cloth versus disposable diapers. The update confirmed the earlier study’s findings that there is no clear winner in terms of environmental impacts between disposable and cloth diapers in the U.K., once all factors such as water, energy, detergent, and disposal are considered.

I don’t care what way you slice it, there is no way any study (and I find fault with many studies quoted by disposable companies and would love for a true unbiased study comparing cloth and disposables to be performed) will convince me that the sheer amount of waste generated by disposables isn’t worse for the environment than a resuable option.  Pampers, do you wash your clothes and your sheets?  So do I.  So does everyone else.  Adding 3 more loads of laundry a week does add up, but does it override the tons of trash generated by each family in disposable diapers and human waste?  You also neglect to mention that unlike disposables, cloth diapers aren’t just used for one child.  Whether those diapers are used on one or more younger siblings, or given a new life in a new family, they live on for years.

Myth: Developing countries prove that cloth diapers are better than disposable diapers.
Fact: Our product provides key benefits in terms of skin health, dryness, and even sleep. In China, for example, we’ve learned that babies and parents are frequently awakened during the night each time the baby soaks the bed, because the baby has no diaper or a very thin piece of cloth. As a result, studies have shown that a disposable diaper can help a baby there get a better night’s sleep. In another test, we have also seen less fecal contamination spread around the home using disposables versus cloth or nothing.
Clearly, we have a lot to learn about how to help with basic hygiene needs in countries that have very different access to clean water to wash with, and how to best dispose of products after use. We’ve also learned about hygiene for older children through our Always feminine care business – where in many parts of the world girls are forced to miss school one week each month during their period because they don’t have enough pads or fresh water.
We are working in those regions to better understand what they do with products after use, and how to work with local agencies and other businesses to ensure the best long-term system to manage it.

This is probably a nod to defend them marketing cheaper disposables to third world nations that have mostly used cloth.  Are they are also hoping to end the practice Elimination Communication in countries like China?  Just because most Americans can’t fathom their babies never wearing a diaper, other countries only use EC.  And if Pampers thinks the babies are going to the bathroom wherever they please, I am here to tell you that is not the case.  The parents are there to help the babies and catch their eliminations.  Their home isn’t full of baby droppings like a non trained puppy.  It is insulting to insinuate such a thing.  As for sleep, I honestly don’t know how EC families who don’t use diapers handle this until they learn to hold it.  I imagine it would disrupt their sleep but the families are well prepared for this.  Not every baby begins sleeping through the night at 6 weeks like the American ideal.  Many Americans stuff their baby full of thickened formula to get them to sleep longer too, but it doesn’t mean that is right.  Just means people do it.

And I want to quickly address their Always claim.  Pampers cites that girls in third world countries have to miss school because they don’t have access to feminine hygeine products.  Oh, you mean pads that you throw away after each use?  This is simply not true.  Periods are not new, and neither is school.  There are such things as cloth pads.  Or, menstrual cups, which have been distributed to girls in many countries.  And more recent studies do show a decline in attendance during their time of the month, but it wasn’t due to the lack of access to throw away feminine products.  It was due to cramps.

Myth: Disposable diapers are harmful to the environment.
Fact: All of the component materials in Pampers diapers are gentle to consumers and safe for the environment. Pampers diapers are made of materials that are also frequently used in a wide range of other consumer products. We are committed to continuing to reduce our environmental impact. For example, Pampers has decreased its diaper weight by one-third and packaging weight by two-thirds. And innovative technologies, raw materials, and product design improvements have led to significant reductions in energy, water use, emissions, and waste at our plants. We are working so that our diapers in the future will have less impact on the environment than even today’s diapers.

Don’t pee on my head and tell me it’s raining, Pampers.   First, just because other products use materials found in your diapers it doesn’t make it right or safe.  But, if you want to play that card, that statement is lacking the fact that one ingredient (sodium polyacrylate) found in your diapers has been banned from tampons for being linked to Toxic Shock Syndrome.*  On top of that, Dioxin, another chemical in your diapers, is banned in most other countries because it is linked to cancer and is one of the most dangerous chemicals according to the EPA.*  Their new “environmentally friendly” diaper is the one most likely causing the rashes being suffered by thousands of parents.  Is it because there is less paper filler, and less material between the baby and the chemicals?  And only when they create a new product do they acknowledge the impact on the environment of their old diapers.

Myth: The materials that make up Pampers diapers are depleting our forests.

Fact: The pulp used in our diapers comes from well-managed forests in North America. In some cases, we source our pulp from scrap wood chips from lumber and saw mills. Our pulp suppliers are required to be certified by an independent third party as practicing sustainable forestry. Certification includes standards and criteria for replanting trees, protecting biodiversity, water, air and soil, and for obtaining broad stakeholder input into the forest management plan.

We live in a disposable world.  We use forests to make toilet paper, paper plates, disposable diapers, etc.  I can’t claim to have never used these products.  I will say that though cloth diapers do use resources on our planet as well, many use more renewable materials such as bamboo and hemp.  Not to mention most of the diapers that use cotton choose to use organic cotton.  If your claims are true, that is great.  But it doesn’t make up for the amount of waste put into landfills by your diapers.

*Facts taken from the Real Diaper Association.

The RDA is taking a stand.  If you want to write your own post about Real Diaper myths and facts read this cool info.

This post is part of the Real Diaper Facts carnival hosted by Real Diaper Events, the official blog of the Real Diaper Association, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to cloth diaper education. Participants were asked to write about diaper lies and real diaper facts. See the list at the bottom of this post to read the rest of the carnival entries.

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Radical Parenting- My Summary of Discovery Health’s Show on AP parents

dischealthI was very late to the party.  I only learned about Discovery Health’s show Radical Parenting a few days before it aired, after catching a tweet about it.  I immediately set my DVR to record but ended up watching it live: a rarity in my home.

Before the show aired I learned about the controversy over the term “radical parenting.”  The show itself featured three families: an “unschooling” family, a family who practiced “attachment parenting,” and a family who raises their children in a “gender neutral” environment.

I will admit to not being into homeschooling, and definitely not unschooling.  I still watched the segment with an open mind, hoping to have it prove to me that unschooling is a viable method to educate children.  Frankly, that didn’t happen.  While I support families making choices for their families that work for them, I know unschooling is not for me.  I was happy to see that both parents were very well educated, so they have the tools to teach their children.  And, in a way, knowing they had both been to college and made the decision to unschool did carry some weight with me that maybe it wasn’t completely crazy!

The second segment followed an AP family.  If there was a rule book for AP living, I believe this family would be following it completely.  The highlight of this portion of the show was seeing a child ECing!  They were so good at EC that they didn’t use diapers, and never had.  Part of their success had to be contributed to the fact that their son was worn in a sling the majority of his life.  His cues partly involved squirming out of his sling when he needed to go to the potty.  Extended breastfeeding was also discussed, and the mother was even shown actually nursing!  Pretty cool!  This family also coslept with their younger children, something I was also happy to see on TV.  They did have to bust out the “crazy” a little.  A placenta was involved, but not to be eaten, just to plant.  A-ok with me.

The final segment had The Feminist Breeder‘s family talking about their lives as a “gender neutral” family.  They happened to come off as the most “normal” of the three, and had a very likeable family.  Their purpose was to raise boys who were feminist minded.  They allowed their boys to play with boy and girl toys, and liked to show both parents playing male and female roles interchangeably.  I agreed with everything they did, but I think calling it a name was not needed.  It seems to me it is something most parents do.  I personally allow my son to play with whatever he wants, be it a boy or girl toy.  Because he has an affinity for necklaces and hugging boys I do joke about his preferences, and I would love him no matter what!

Overall, I was happy to see these families profiled to let tv viewers see the way the other half lives.  I especially love seeing breastfeeding on tv!  I heard The Feminist Breeder’s husband was washing cloth diapers but I was tweeting during the show and must have missed it.

PS.  If you missed the show it airs again on Discovery Health on March 6 at 1:00 pm.  That is today people!

Did you see the show?  What did you think?

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Baby Legs Review

I fought the Baby Legs craze hard when I first had my son.  I saw many pictures of how adorable they were on little girls, and even a few boys, but in my mind I couldn’t see a boy in them.  I wanted to love them because they would make diaper changes so much easier.  It wasn’t until a friend told me about a fabulous sale that I gave in.  “Oh, they will just be for around the house.” I assured myself, and my husband.

DSC_4528Since then things have changed drastically!  My Baby Legs are more than for knocking around the house, though they are good for that too.  I like to use them when we go out just because they are cute.  When we fly, I pair Baby Legs and a onesie or t shirt for quick diaper changes on the plane.  We especially love Baby Legs for EC’ing!  It makes access to his diaper or training pants, like his ECA Wear trainers, easy.  They keep his legs warm too!

One thing I wished of Baby Legs was that they have tights (more for girls but if my son wouldn’t look girly in them we would use them in a heartbeat) or matching socks for their legs.

babylegstightsLuckily, now they have both!  Baby Legs has introduced a new line of coordinating socks (2 pair in a pack) that match their Baby Legs.  They have fun patterns that you can mix and match, like argyle, stripes, and polka dots in coordinating color schemes.  Fletcher is modeling argyle socks with striped Baby Legs.  His little legs would get cold while he potties without them!  The socks are aize 12 months, but my son is 10.5 and fits them perfectly.  He also has “chunky” feet.

Another thing I love about Baby Legs is that the back of their package actually says “Makes diaper changing, potty training, and EC’n a breeze.” Plus. there is a Dad using what I assume is an Ergo on the back too.  Granted, he looks a little strange wearing rainbow Baby Legs on his arms but I forgive him because he is wearing his baby girl.

If you are excited to pick up a pair of Baby Legs you should take advantage of this deal.  Use code “Punkin” when you buy one pair of seasonal Baby Legs, and get another pair free!  This is good Oct 8-21.  What a great way to stock up for your little one, or to buy a few gifts!  We just bought 2 pair for a friend’s daughter who just turned one and they love them!

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EC Wear- ECA Pants Review

EProcketsI was sent a pair of teeny tiny training pants by ECA Wear from EC Wear, a website where you can find products for ECing and resources to help you get started.

ecapantsThe ECA Pants I was sent are first off, the cutest tiniest things you have ever seen.  It is so strange to see a baby without a huge fluffy butt.  ECA Pants are thin enough that they don’t look like diapers, but they have enough absorbency to hold in one pee, just in case we have a miss!  You can get them in snaps or velcro, and waterproof or not.  Waterproof ECA Pants would be great for the baby who is excellent at ECing and who can use a public toilet.  For us, the non waterproof were perfect.  They allowed me to keep checking to make sure we hadn’t missed a pee, and in the one case where we did miss (I had the bath running but hadn’t put him on the potty yet in case he had to go, which he did.  Water works!) the ECA Pants held in the pee without leaking down the legs.  I could tell immediately that he was peeing and started making our cue “pssst.”  Even though we missed, I still want him to associate the “psst” sound with going, in a diaper or on the potty.

EcaPant_open_viewWhat I have to convey to you is how easy these make ECing.  Because they have an elastic band in the front, when you undo the front of the pants, just like you would a side snapping diaper, the pants stay on.  Essentially, you just remove the front so that they can go, and push it to the back.  When your child is done, just flip the front back up and resnap.  I can even resnap him as he crawl away!  Something that does not work with a diaper since it isn’t attached to him.

If you are an ECing parent, these aren’t a must have, but they do make your life so much easier!  Sometimes I find myself being lazy about EC (especially for a few weeks where we took a “break” with life being so hectic) and when I think about having to take off pants, undo diaper, potty, then chase the baby while I try to put a diaper and pants back on, I get exhausted by the thought.  Having an easy way to EC can certainly keep me focused on my son and his needs, even when the day is jam packed.

About EC Wear:

EC Wear LLC, based in New York City, is owned and operated by Marija, a work-at-home-mom (WAHM).  Marija and her husband Chuck have been practicing Elimiination Communication with their son since his birth.  Initially, their interest came out of concern for the environment and dislike of disposable diapers.  Eventually, they realized the best benefit of EC was for their son’s health. At EC Wear you will find clothes in sizes newborn to 24 months that are made in USA, Canada, Europe, or Australia, fair trade, or made by women in their homes or in workers’ cooperatives. It is our priority to disclose the origins of every item we sell. Of course, nearly all of the clothing is suitable for any parents who are looking for convenience in clothing and diaper changes, whether practicing EC or not.

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Q&A With Christine Gross-Loh- Author of The Diaper Free Baby

Christine Gross-Loh has agreed to answer some questions about her book, The Diaper Free Baby.  She has her own blog, Origami Mommy, and has a blog about Elimination Communication in the works.  I hope you all enjoy reading her answers as much as I did.  If you are interested in purchasing her book, you can click the link.
About the Author: Christine Gross-Loh is a freelance writer with a PhD from Harvard University. Her writing has appeared in Mothering, Shape, and Parenting. She is very involved in DiaperFreeBabyTM, a nonprofit organization founded in 2004 to promote awareness of EC. She has appeared on The Early Show and Paula Zahn Now, among others. Gross-Loh lives in Tokyo, Japan, with her husband and children.

1.  What prompted you to write a book about Elimination Communication?

When I first started EC, I didn’t know anyone else who did it, and I would have loved to have support, information, and stories from other parents who were on the EC journey too, so I wanted to provide that to a wide audience.  I also wrote The Diaper-Free Baby at a time when awareness of EC was starting to really grow, but along with that growth came a lot of misconceptions – like the idea that EC is about potty training, or that it’s training parents, or that it’s messy or too time-consuming for modern parents to do. I was eager to counter these misconceptions with some real, solid information that would get people to consider giving EC a try.

2. What has been the reception of your book since its publication?

People have been wonderfully positive and interest is constantly growing.  It just makes my day when I hear from a reader who decided to try EC after reading my book.


3.  What would you say to someone who told you EC is “unnatural” or “dirty?”

I think it’s important to remember that diapers are what is new – particularly disposable diapers – not EC. EC is an age-old practice born of a human wisdom that we all possess and can tap into if we choose to.  Also, many parents actually find pottying their baby to be less messy than cleaning up messes from a baby and a diaper.



4.  Is there a perfect age to begin EC?

I think it’s nice to start when your baby is a newborn or a young infant because they eliminate so frequently that you have many opportunities to get in tune with each other and develop a rhythm. It’s amazing how quickly you and your young baby will catch on to each other. And you can begin very part time if you want to and then ramp up later on as you gain more experience and confidence.  3-6 months is also a good time to begin because you and your baby are in a groove and a lot of parents experience great success with EC at this time.  But both in my personal experience and in many of the stories I’ve heard from others, EC can be begun at a variety of ages as long as you know what to expect. My book discusses implementing EC principles in potty learning with a young toddler, which is when I began EC with my first child.



5. What would you say is the biggest misconception out there about EC?

Perhaps that you have to do it full time or not at all. Or perhaps that it’s too much work for a parent. It’s interesting to look back on all the ways that our knowledge of EC has evolved. When I was first starting out, the misconception that I heard was that babies just weren’t capable of being aware of their own elimination, but I don’t hear that much anymore. I think that as more people try EC, other misconceptions will fall away as well.


6.  Did you have a favorite item to help in your own journey?  (potty, diaper, training pant, etc)

I have so many favorite items it’s hard to list them all! The Baby Bjorn Potty is a classic because it is low enough to the ground that a baby can sit on it. There are many new EC training pants out there too. I love nice wool leggings to use over training pants, and love having a few wool pads around to lay baby diaper-free on a soft, yet natural waterproof surface.


7.  What is the difference between when you began your EC journey, and today?  Do you feel there are more resources for families just starting out?

Absolutely! In addition to my book and others on EC, the organization I work with, DiaperFreeBaby, provides real-life and online support groups for parents practicing EC, and there are many other online support groups and websites too.


8.  In talking to other families who EC, is their motivation more environmental or to be in tune with their child?

Many times parents who are interested in being in tune with their child are also committed to living a life that is gentle on the earth, so many of these groups of people overlap. A lot of times you’ll find parents who are initially interested in cloth diapering and then discover that it is perfectly compatible with EC.

Read my review of The Diaper Free Baby here or find my other posts about EC here.

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The Diaper Free Baby- Christine Gross-Loh *Review*

This is part one of a two part post.  Tomorrow stay tuned for a Q&A with Christine Gross-Loh about her book.

My journey to Elimination Communication has only just begun, and since I came to it knowing little, to nothing about how EC works,  I decided internet research alone could only go so far.  The internet did lead me to an excellent book to read which has helped my journey tremendously.  The Diaper-Free Baby: The Natural Toilet Training Alternative, authored by Christine Gross-Loh, is an invaluable tool to anyone hoping to practice EC.  The most important thing that the book hopes to get across is this: EC is not an all or nothing endeavor.  When my friends find out about my son using a potty at 6 months old, I can only imagine what images run through their minds.  Do they picture me holding him captive on a potty while he screams and squirms to be released from my icy grasp?  Or, do they imagine my son naked, spraying his urine wildly in the air like a fire house, with no control over his bodily functions?  Maybe they think I am constantly scrubbing my carpet?  I honestly don’t know what they think, nor do I care.  I only wish they would all read this book!  Christine breaks EC into categories, or tracks, based upon the time and effort you wish to put into it.  You can practice EC on a full time basis.  A full time ECer would aim to catch (a term ECers use when referring to their child peeing on a potty, or into a diaper) virtually all of their child’s eliminations.  A part-time ECer wants to practice when they can, but probably won’t let their child be completely diaper free.  They would also probably not practice EC out of the home.  They may also only catch bowel movements, which for most children are the easiest to predict.  An occasional ECer may only catch 1 pee or poop a day, if that.  They may be working parents who have only evenings and weekends to attempt.  Or, they might just offer a potty break during prime times like in the morning or at a diaper change.  Between the three tracks there is tons of wiggle room.  That is what I love about EC!  My first day I caught 7 pees!  I was extremely intent on my new hobby.  But, life gets hectic.  If I am running errands I fall back to diapers and only attempt potty time 1-3 times that day.

My son practicing being diaper free.  You may be able to see the pee in the potty.

My son practicing being diaper free. You may be able to see the pee in the potty.

The book is laid out based on these tracks, and also the time at which you have decided to start trying EC with your child.  I found it extremely helpful that the book was organized as a reference tool.  If you didn’t start until your child was in middle infancy, you could turn to that section.  She went over the basics all over again, briefly, and then offered suggestions on the best ways to begin EC with a baby at that age.  And, if you started from birth, you could skip to how to practice at that moment, without reading the introductions.  I had no idea there were so many ways to practice EC.  If you began from birth, she discussed the different holds you could use to position a newborn over a toilet or sink.  As the baby ages and potties can be used, there are tricks on how to make potty time fun.  All of these things will help in my journey.

When I had just barely read the introduction, I started my first “half” day of EC.  I had just gone to Babies R Us and purchased my little potty, and was ecstatic to begin using it.  I knew that day my son needed to have a BM.  I had him sitting on his potty, but he wanted to stand.  He kept his legs straight, and his knees locked.  This is not conducive to being a boy, and peeing.  When he did pee, he peed on me.  This, my friends, is what you call a “miss”.  Except, instead of not knowing he had to go, and letting it happen in a diaper or on the floor, it happened on me.  While I focused on the fact that he must have some more pee coming… he was focused on something else.  He secretly, and very quietly, with no facial expressions or grunts, crapped on the front of the potty, and on the floor.  I had no clue until I felt the crap- with my foot.

A few nights later I finally got the time to read more of my book.  I was feeling pretty bad about my only experience with EC.  My hopes were high that The Diaper Free Baby could give me some miracle answer to save my EC attempts in the future.  I wouldn’t call it a magic answer, but I did learn things that saved our EC journey, and put it back on track.  First, it suggested to try offering the potty at certain times of the day, when babies are most likely to pee.  Of course!  I offered the potty to my son the morning after I read this.  He peed!  Oh how exciting, I cannot even express how cool that was!  I continued offering him the potty after he awoke from naps, and after nursing.  By just offering at those times I caught 7 pees.  I missed about 4 in diapers which were placed on him, or under him.  The next tip: use “cues” to help baby understand when to potty.  Basically, every time your baby pees, even if it is in a diaper, you should make a “psst” noise, or say pee.  And for poops, a grunting noise, or say poop, or whatever you want.  Eventually, your baby will associate the noise to the action, and can then be “cued” to do it by the noise!  If you think that is crazy, it isn’t.  My son has a pavlovian response to the click of my nursing bra.  His mouth opens, and he gets into position!  Maybe I am imagining things, but after a few pees with the “psst” noise, I noticed he began contracting his stomach muscles and forced himself to pee when I cued him on the potty.  It wasn’t always like that, but it happens sometimes.

The book also lays out some essential tools you will need for practicing EC, and some not so essential, but helpful, items.  I remember my uncle telling me how odd it was to see babies and toddlers walking around China wearing crotchless pants.  Of course now I realize these babies were ECing, and the parents decided to make life easier by letting them be diaper free, but decided to keep their legs warm!  I already owned Baby Legs, which make diaper changing easy; they also make diaper free time easy as well!  Potties are mentioned as well.  I purchased the Baby Bjorn Little Potty.  She even gives a mini introduction to cloth diapers, and outlines the types and functions of the diapers available.

7-08-09 My son finally sat on the potty to pee!!!

7-08-09 My son finally sat on the potty to pee!!!

To anyone even slightly curious about Elimination Communication, go to your library and check out The Diaper Free Baby.  Or, purchase your own copy.  It is an invaluable resource for someone starting EC, and a good read for anyone just curious!  By reading the book, you aren’t guaranteed success, and it won’t impart to you the perfect way to EC.  Every child is different, and so far I have been very lucky.  We may hit a potty pause, which is also addressed in the book.  For now, I am enjoying keeping my son comfortable and dry, and saving myself some diaper laundry.  The book also notes that just because you EC, if doesn’t guarantee that your child will be potty TRAINED at an earlier age than other children.  Your chances of that are very high, but not guaranteed.  So, if you are intrigued, please give EC a chance in your home.  Just try putting your child over your own toilet once, just once, first thing in the morning.  You may catch a pee, and be hooked!

*** I really debated about whether or not I should show this video I took of my son peeing on the potty.  I may take it down quickly, but I wanted to show what EC looks like.  A word or warning, there is full frontal baby nudity.  Obviously this is not a sexual thing, but if you are offended by a baby penis then don’t click on the video.  Also, I want to add that since taking this video he has learned to sit on the potty to pee.***

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Wet Backs and Soaking Sheets, Oh My!

This morning I awoke to a familiar, but completely unwelcome sight:  A small wet spot on my sheets.  No, I did not wet my bed!  But my son did.  Of course, he didn’t do it on purpose.  He is just a baby.  Somewhere along the line we had a cloth diaper failure.  Half awake (this was at 6:00 am) I picked my son up from our cozy bed.  Instead of morning cuddles like usual I had to tend to his wet clothing.  

I examined the culprit- a Blueberry One Size Pocket Diaper with snaps.  It was stuffed with a hemp and micofiber combo insert.  I couldn’t figure out any structural failure (a fit issue).  It had to be repelling.  NOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Fast forward to 8:00 am.  Fletcher was now in a Bum Genius 3.0.  I decided it was time for both of us to take a nap.  We cuddled up in bed and fell asleep.  Once again, I woke up to a familiar site:  Another puddle!  Thankfully I had not changed the sheets yet, I just moved over to the other side of the bed!  Again, I was robbed of my cuddle time.  When my son wakes up he is the happiest baby.  He loves to roll around and play right after waking.  Instead, I ran him over to the changing table to get a fresh diaper and change his outfit, again.

So yes, I am having a repelling issue.  This means I have to strip my diapers of any and all detergent that has built up on them, causing them to let pee slide right off of them.  I am not a fan of bleach, so I will be using hot washed with dawn, followed by a lot of rinsing.  Looks like today is going to be a great day to EC!

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